Tuesday, November 17, 2009

I need advice on this friendship of mine. Please?

She's my best friend. I use to talk to her like all the time and we talked about everything. All of a sudden, we just aren't talking anymore like just out of no where? She still announces that I am her best friend everywhere like on myspace, facebook, survey bulletins, etc. but she doesn't act like one AT ALL. I realized that I'm the one who makes us stay in contact by calling, texting, messaging her but she never answers the calls or texts ONLY the messages on myspace which is weird? and if I dont, we just dont talk. It's been 3 weeks and no sign from her. I'm really sick of trying to be the one who like will call her so I have not and im just waiting on how long or whether or not she will act like "my best friend" but whatever I have accepted this and I don't care as much anymore because time has passed but I find it ****** up, you know? Basically, I'm wondering what I should do, if I should do anything, and... what you think of the situation? Thanks. :)

I need advice on this friendship of mine. Please?
Well the situation is similar to mine..


Stop making the first move to call.. u did ur job.. now its up to her to be in contact.. if she dont want to msg u or call u then just try to forget her and move ahead in life.. if she doesnt care to stay in contact then why should u waste ur precious time in thinking abt such person? i knw its hard coz i hav gone thru the same but time will heal everything.. :)
Reply:Maybe,she wants you to avoid her and there have been a problem lately.Maybe she thinks your too clingy(not to be rude) or something.Talk to her in MySpace and tell her that something is bothering you.If she doesn't talk or reply,move one.Find new friends and if she comes talking to you,just be cool.
Reply:She may be having some personal problems and doesnt want people to know. Ask her if she is having problems and offer to help.
Reply:well i think you should message her ...tell her that shes not being a good friend....friends are not supposed to avoid friends....tell her you feel left out....i hope everything works out....good luck
Reply:Well, first, this friend isn't really being a very good friend by ignoring you and not talking to you, but if she has been avoiding people alot lately maybe there is something else going on in her life that no one else knows about.





There might be something bigger and I think that maybe you shouldn't stop trying because if she is being closed there is always a reason. Think about the people she has been involved with lately, her family and maybe her boyfriend?





I think there is something more to this and wait a while until she comes around and give her some space.








Hope I could help =DD





xx.


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