Does this mean he misses me?

me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. he was my "first love." anyways, he said that he dumped me because he "needed to be alone" because he was going through family problems, but through myspace i could tell he liked someone else because of surveys in bulletins he posted. we talked a little bit after we broke up, and then it got less and less. exactly a month after we broke up he came and visited me at work. he was being shy and his friend was doing most of the talking but he hugged me before he left. we don't talk much online anymore, but he called me a few times in the last couple weeks just to randomly talk for a few minutes. when we talk it pretty much is just like old times, like before we started going out. is it safe to say he missed me? or is there any other reason he would be calling? i miss him a lot, and im pretty sure i've made that obvious to him.

Does this mean he misses me?
Yes, he definitely miss you.





At some point, he got bored with the relationship that you had. He was not bored with you, but maybe bored about what you both did on the weekend, or your boring daily activities, or maybe you didn't give him enough attention? In that situation, a man could almost immediately seek for a new girl, cause he'd feel like he had just been liberated..He feels free now. But not necessarily he likes the girl that you suspected he is, it is the thrill and excitement of pursuing a girl that make him want to go through that process of flirting again. I've personally been in that state of mind before. In the end, he realized that what he was doing is wrong and useless, he listened to his little heart and found you there. My advice is, enjoy every moment, enjoy the feeling of being wanted by a guy, don't play hard to get...but not easy to get either, let him be the director of this new episode, he will eventually pour it out in front of you, you are just an actress, listen to what the director told you to do...
Reply:He might miss you but it also could be that he wants to be your friend, he could also have a clever trick up his sleeve!
Reply:Oh yeah... I have been there before and boy I wish someone would have been honest with me.





I could tell you yes, as they told me, but from experience I think that it probably didn't work in his favor with the girl he liked that he might have left you for.





And since you have made it known to him that you miss him, he knows he can go back to you and you will be there with arms wide open.





You are his comfort zone, becareful unless you want to give this guy a 2nd chance....he might have realized he lost a good thing and will keep you for good.





But play hard to get, if you make things too easy, he will only keep doing this pattern over and over.





Be smart.