Did he cross the line?? Or am I overreacting?

Ive already posted a question about this, but I have new information--


My boyfriend just met this 7th grade girl on myspace (she's the kind of girl who likes the first person she meets just because they show the slightest interest in her-do you know the type?)


Anyway, he posted comments on her myspace photos like


"You look great in that outfit"


"Oh dang"


"I like your seductive face"


and he told me yesterday that he knew she liked him (she's only known him for a few days! and she posts all kinds of "i love him soooo much!" stuff)


he also told me that all he did was comment on her photos....then she posted a bulletin of a survey....


I found out that he met up with her on wednesday, calls her on the phone, and told her she was beautiful. Don't you think telling her that she's beautiful is leading her on?! Why didn't he tell me that he met up with her---he left out a lot of big details when he talked to me yesterday, when they got together on wednesday.

Did he cross the line?? Or am I overreacting?
first of all you are to old for him and you should dump him for that sht!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Are you sure he is your boyfriend??? He's not acting like a very good one. I would definitely follow Me's advise.
Reply:Do you not get it.....your boyfriend is seeing another girl....
Reply:Yep stuff is going on but hey ure only in 7th grade probly like her and it isnt going to last forever so dont worry there are lots of guys out there. She doesnt know what love is when I was in 7th grade I was the same way.
Reply:Wake up girl-


If he is messing-flirting with some other young hotttie or nottie then you might want to consider him not trustworthy or he is simply being nice-Guys can appreciate other girls without being a two-timer etc. Since he met her I would wonder WTF?!


It is Your decision what to do. Ask yourself this-If it were my best friend in my position what would I suggest she do? Then do it.


Take care,


Bc
Reply:Omg, okay you really should break up with him. He's only gonna end up going out with that other girl and breaking your heart. He went WAY over the line.
Reply:i think your bf is a fgt.
Reply:no your not overreacting and if you were smarter u would have broken up with him already! come on dont let him walk over u! ur SO much better than that!
Reply:okay well hes being extremly gay.


tell him that if he doesnt get his act straight, its risking you relationship.


and if he cares enough about your relationship, that he shouldnt be telling someother girl that.


andd if he gets mad and says it was nothing then ask him how he would feel if you were doing that to him, and if he says he doesnt care, go right ahead and do it.


im sorry, but hes being really akjhkshfka.


also, he might be bored, and looking for fun, so maybe change things up a little bit, dress nice, act sexier, spice things up and maybe hell loose intrest in anyone but you again.
Reply:I think you should definitely talk to him about this. If he didn't tell you about meeting up with her and calling her, and even complimenting her like that, then I think there's probably something going on that you don't know about.


Talk to him and see what's going on.
Reply:I dont know how old you are but I think that you should leave him alone. My mom always told me that there are PLENTY of guys around the world to date, so why trip on just one?? Even if your bf is hot you can still get another one. You are not overreacting so dont worry. Move on girl. Hope this helps :)
Reply:I'm soooo sorry to say but he might be cheating on you... OR he might just be trying to get a new friend... either or. just relax and ask him about it in a calm tone. if you ask him about it in a relaxed calm sort of tone then he might tell you what's been happening rather then leaving out a bunch of crap when you ask him in a stern tone I know it might be hard but see if it works. remember you should be open with your bf no matter what.... I hope I helped.
Reply:yea ur definitely justified in ur reaction...u need to have a serious talk with him.1st of all he shouldn't be meeting up with a random girl that likes him when he has a girlfriend. 2nd of all he shouldn't have hidden it from u.not ok at all
Reply:That's sketchy, (not sure how old you are) but it sounds like hes trying to get with her because he knows shes the easy type.. keep an eye on it.
Reply:Dump him he is a cheater.
Reply:i think that you are abit overreacting
Reply:dump his ***! u deserve better
Reply:your not over reactin. i think he probably lied to you. find out wut really happend. but just him tellin her she's beautiful is wrong. and he met up with her too! break up with him.
Reply:1. Dump boyfriend


2. If boyfriend is NOT in seventh or eighth grade, you need to report him to the girl's parents


3. My Space is DANGEROUS for children and teens
Reply:Yeah, I hate to say it but it's time to let him go! He's definitely not worth it and doesn't really care how you feel. It's gonna be hard but trust me it's the best thing you can do for yourself!
Reply:Well your bf is a lil on the pedofile side.... and just by saying another girl is beatiful just shows you that he's prolly cheating on you... you don't diserve that... i say dump him... there are other guys out there... ones that want you and only you... you've just got to find them...
Reply:Your bf isn't into anymore otherwise he wouldn't have said all that stuff to the other girl. Sorry to break it to you. But it is more than likely over with between you and him.
Reply:Considering he's chatting online with another girl is wrong, its actually weird that we admitted it. Also meeting up with her was a huge no no! Dump him quick, before your feelings get really hurt.
Reply:hes not worth it. i bet you diserve sooo much better then him...
Reply:He's probably cheating on you, sorry