Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Early Signs of an abusive relationship?

My boyfriend reads through my myspace comments. Somtime he'll even read my survey bulletin things i fill out when I'm bored( I didnt even think people read those things , because i know I dont) %26amp;%26amp; bring up some of the things I wrote on them when he's on the phone with me. He calls me stupid somtimes and even tells me to shut up. He has a short temper %26amp;%26amp; sometime yells over stupid mess. He calls almost all females bitches, even his mom. He cursin in almost every sentence. Is this an early sign of a abusive relationship. He's never put his hands on me but I was just wondering if these are some of the earlier signs.

Early Signs of an abusive relationship?
FU*K HIM get out of it now before he totally brings you down. HE IS A *****!
Reply:it sounds like he is deffinatly being verbally and emotionally abusing you. you should probably get out of this relationship before it turns to physical abuse
Reply:could be, to early to know. but how are u attracted to someone who is the way he is. he sounds very rude and ignorant. u might want to rethink ur relationship with him. sounds like he's no good. im sure u can find ur self a good decent well mannered guy out there who treats u nice and talks to u nice.
Reply:RED FLAGS here!





Just the fact he curses a lot and refers to all women- EVEN his mother- bitches is a tell-tale sign...!


What can you expect from this guy in the future??!


Do you really think it's normal to have a partner like him?





Run.....! Chances are he'll get worse in the future !
Reply:You need to get the Fk out of this relationship. You are worth more than letting some guy bring you down. Also, any guy who Disrespects his mother, has NO respect for any women. If you don't get out soon, it will become worse, and even harder to get out, so Please Help Yourself!
Reply:It is NOT too early to know.


The first sign of an abusive relationship is verbal abuse and lack of respect for the individual.


You need him out of your life now.


I promise you things will NOT improve.


Are you going to wait until he hits you to prove my point?
Reply:Yes this sounds like it is going downhill. The temper problem will only get worse, this I know because this is exactly how my friend ended up in the hospital. Look at his role models, people he grew up around. If his father has some similar qualities or if he abused his mother, there could definitely be a problem. Be careful with breakups as well...they can get possessive and violent. I would consult a counsler or close friend. Always remember, look how a man treats his mother to see how he will treat you!
Reply:I would say, YES YES YES, :) It's not only a warning sign for a physically abusive relationship in the horizon, it is currently a mentally abusive relationship. Girl, with all the men in the world, (I know you probably have feelings but you will for another), I suggest you move on. You don't want to end up like Chris Benoit's dead wife, Lacy Petersen, or that woman in Ohio that was killed a couple of weeks ago by her married boyfriend and father of both her son and her unborn daughter. Heed the warning signs and be smart. I'm pulling for you.


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