Should I be mad about this bulletin?

So my best friend of 18 yrs. has been very distant and hasn't called or texted me in a month. She did one of those survey bulletins on MySpace and a question asked, "do you have a best friend?" and she answered, "I don't know anymore".





I have no idea why she's been so distant and won't even talk to me. She's always been scared to confront issues with me and would rather cause drama...after 18 yrs. of friendship.





What should I do?

Should I be mad about this bulletin?
she sounds like an idiot. anyone who is that passive-aggressive, especially after 18 years of supposed friendship, doesn't deserve the attention, time or oxygen required to hash out issues.





get rid of her.
Reply:Hmm well if she really is your best friend then you should be able to confront her about the situation.





Just make sure you address the matter calmly You never know maybe you did something and you didnt even notice or your friend could just be havin a hard time.


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Ok I wouldnt just (get rid of her) and this is why.





I have had a situation where one of my good friends did something really bad and acted like nothing ever happened. I avoided her because I wanted to calm down and think for a while and I didnt want to fight. At that time i was confused not sure if she really was my friend considering after 6 years she couldnt even tell tha what she did hurt me. FINALLY she confronted me about the issue and just said


- hey hun i just wanted to know are you ok...did I do something wrong, because you've been acting really distant latley and its confusing me.


And I told her how I felt and she didnt even realize that what she did hurt me and we resolved the issue so if you have been friends for this long. Dont let something this smal come in the way of your friendship. Sit her down and talk to her. Bestfriends dont come around very often especially ones you keep for 18 years lol Good Luck
Reply:Don't be angry. There must be a reason. I had a friend who would rather ignore me and then make a scene, so just remind her of the good times, and what you love about her. This is sure to bring out her soft side. Just be patient and have a nice serious chat with her and tell her you'll do almost anything to make things right (:
Reply:Okay, I can understand how you might be mad in this sitatuion. You both seem confused, so just send her a message. Don't be too direct or bring up the bulletin. Instead, ask her how's she doing and tell her you'd like to catch up with her sometime soon. The rest will take care of itself.
Reply:i was in a situation like that before.. and the reason why she wrote that was because she was mad at me %26amp; we had a misunderstanding.. then i confronted her. maybe you should confront her too. or maybe you did something to her that made her said that ? ask her so that you'll know...
Reply:I'd be annoyed if I were you. Since she can only communicate via myspace, send her a message. Tell her you want to talk to her on the phone or meet up somewhere. Get the situation out in the open ASAP.
Reply:well think about it.. is she really your best friend is she cant even come to you for conflicts after 18 yrs. i think she has moved on and so should you
Reply:Talk to her! Thats all I got to say.
Reply:to tell you the truth dont ask people you dont even know on yahoo answers try talking to her yourself again and keep trying
Reply:i dont care